Remember the old days where I used to carry you on my back as we play horse ride down the meadows, catching grasshoppers and blowing off dandelion and make a wish? The way you smile and the sparks of your eyes were like a beautiful picture of joy and happiness. We tease each other and sometimes I can see you frowning like no other and you want to scream and freak out, but a little tickle changes your mood in a snap. We play, we fight, we even yell at each other, sometimes we hate each other like worst enemies but at the end of the day – we love each other. You may see me sitting in the corner, sad and depressed, you would come closer cheer me up and always say “I’m here for you and I will never leave you” – but you’re gone cannot see even your shadow.



I wish everything remains just like the old days; we’re innocent and care nothing but to play and enjoy each others’ company. Before we sleep at night we cuddle and sometimes we do pillow fight till our parents enter our room and scold us all, yet we still laughing out loud. During meal times you always tell your stories about your bad day or the friends who nag you, then father would say you’re special and most beautiful – you would blink your eyes like a fairy cause your were stirred up with his words. After that we gather around you as you stand above the table and dance us your favorite disco music. You would shake your body and even swing your arms freely in the air gleefully. Time goes by, we have dreams and we aim for things in life. We parted ways and live the life we chose. But I still miss you; I still miss the old days.  I wish we could have a counterclockwise of the past, maybe now, the truth is hard to forget - that we really love each other more than the hatred we have for each other.


I may have hurt you many times but that’s maybe because you’re too kind to understand and still understand. I may have asked you too much but that’s maybe because you’ve have enough to be asked from. Am I getting too far? Getting much advantage from you? Sorry I’m weak and wasn’t able to fulfill great things in life and sorry for having you involved with my burdens. Maybe you have thought, I’m always hurting you and giving you reasons to cry – I just found myself in a room and realize you were the only one to cheer me up and I was equipped with some thoughts that you will be there and won’t leave me. However things change like the weather and the moment you thought it’s still sunny the rains have already taken over.

We mocked each other’s back and even talk to people about flaws but what’s the sense? We have the same blood running over our veins and we came out from the same womb – we are brothers. You please other like kings and queens but I don’t understand why you cannot even treat me like an average one. I went home to contemplate and wonder much why things look so good when it’s fancy. Am I fancy? I don’t have the image to be fancy to public eyes, so maybe I better hide. One day I run over you crying and asking for help, you were there again backing me off but sorry I wasn’t able to give you something in return and maybe I’ve hurt you again. If only every time I see you around I could hug you, I could see you dance again like the old days, I could carry you in my back and we play again down the meadow, if only I could tell you from time to time how much I missed you and how proud am I to you, but things became so awkward, you were by my side but I can feel you miles away – really would like to ask “where are you?” “Who are you now?” however that might begin a long dramatic story so I better never mind it.

What have we done? Why we were like this? How hard it is to love each other? I don’t know I cannot figure out any answers. I just want you to be like the old days. Are we giving you too much load to carry? I’m sorry. When you say painful words to me, I just bow my head and feel in shame not because what you’ve said are true but because I wasn’t able to see that within myself – I am blind and I need time to know it better I guess. Im wondering why you love other people much and persuade them all the time when we found you sick in your bed none of them have showed up and only family can stay in tuck forever. Im afraid every one of us failed to see that.


Why we feel insecure to each other when we have all the things to be secured if all of us are uniting each other. Why we need to get jealous over someone’s fate when they are our brothers, aren’t we needed to be happy for them instead? Why we need to laugh out loud over our brothers striving for food? Aren’t we having the heart to help them instead? We used to compare which one is better why not we lift the weak and make them better instead? We never like it much to see our brother so poor while we used to toss our wines with elegance, can we not walk over them and share something in excess? Why we need to rumble those flaws, negative traits and attitudes when we are family? Love is greater, is it? Or hate is better than it? I don’t know all I want is to wish for the old days, see those smiles those eyes that reflects happy souls and those treatment to each other. Maybe if time could stand still, I wish to go back at certain point and wish it to be forever.

Everybody has various things to make in the ber months. Some would try achieving their goals, would do life changing activities and more fun to enjoy. We all have different trains to board to create a one of kind memories of the season. To welcome the month, we have evaluated the most amazing and palatable food to try this September that would surely satisfy your cravings like no other.

Fig and Cantaloupe Salad

No matter how exciting your life could be this September you would surely love sitting in a certain cozy restaurant and order your favorite salad. This recipe involves heaps of figs, bunch of peppery watercress, over-ripe cantaloupe, sliced red onions and a dressing made of creamy garlic and Greek yogurt. This has been regarded as a perfect late summer salad due to it savory taste and good health benefits.

Plum Cake 

When it comes to cakes most people have the same say. Plum cake is not just sinfully delicious but this one is very easy to make without consuming much of your time. Plum as the main ingredient will surely give you a different taste that leaves a splendid impression after your first bite.

Garlic Butter Salmon 

You will surely say that this could be your best summer dish you have tried in your entire life. The fine chopped of salmon fillet flavored with special condiments and or caramelized shallot relish according to your choice is heavenly delish.

 Japanese curry rice

Ever since Japanese cuisine is not the least and they have the best Asian taste of curry rice, sushi rice and other rice recipes. This September you surely won’t want to miss the newest tastes of Japanese curry rice with special ingredients.

Eggs Benedict Cumberbatch 

Another palatable dish to enjoy while spending your happiest days this September is the Eggs Benedict Cumberbatch. Indeed anything that compliments egg Yolk truly a polenta.

Surely now you have your newest favorite food to try this month. Not only having a one of a kind experience from different activities that you may have but also something hard to forget when you do your food trips with your friends. families and associates.

Indeed true! “You will never know how strong you are until being strong is the only thing you have”. Every person has their own journey or shall we say battle in life but no matter what the things we’re fighting for, we all have the same goal – to become victor at the end.

This might sound unusual to most ears, but this story I have interviewed from a very successful man is really touching and something like “experiences makes you better”. I have this friend and he is a designer. He does architecture jobs and had created impeccable designs highly considered abroad. But before reaching such success, what he been through is a great life challenge. He grew up without family beside him; he is alone and used to live to his relatives. He work chores and babysit his nieces and nephews so that he can be sent to school. He was born with skills, talents and strong personality and he is not afraid to face any waves of life along the way. Unlike others, he’s a bit unfortunate; before coming to school he needs to wake up round 3 o clocks in the morning to cook breakfast, wash laundry and clean the house. He assists his nephews and nieces before coming to their respective schools, preparing their lunch boxes and giving them their uniforms which cause him to come late to his classes. That was his routine and during night time before attending to his home works and projects he must assure first that everything inside the house were fine and settled.

Coming to school every day was never easy too. He doesn’t have enough allowance for transportation and ended up walking kilometers away either the sun is shining up in the sky or rain pours heavily. There are times when he would spend 18 hours working to earn money for his projects (since his course is a kind of expensive one – architecture) as his sideline jobs. He has tried painting public walls and customizes design to some printing businesses in the city for a penny. His kind of man who cannot afford to depend everything to his relatives and he doesn’t like much their attitudes, so doing sideline jobs was his options.


The rest was history and he graduated with flying colors however nobody comes to witness it. Months later, he got his first job in the leading organization of the country as building designer of different subdivisions and condominiums. A little bit, life becomes easier on his part but right that moment, he realizes he wants more like exploring a bigger world. The truth about him is that his talent is extraordinary; he can draw realistically and amazingly. In short the man is in demand. Time passes by and one day he was appointed to work in Saudi Arabia as one of the designers of the biggest real estate company – owned by Americans. Without hesitations he accepts the offer and currently on the highest peak of his career. He is designing sophisticated buildings, malls and other infrastructures in Middle East with good pay.


Who would have thought that success would come so fast on his part? The thing is he is very dedicated and so persistent. He believes that no matter what he do right, there will be something in the end that’s worth the effort.

1. Your are very straight forward when giving opinions but this doesn’t mean you never check yourself well. 

Unless if you want to upset everybody. 

2. As time goes by you’ve been the reliable provider of honest advice to your friends
 Friends will always care asking your point of views towards thins regardless if it hurts or no

3. Some people find it difficult accepting your opinions.
This happen most of the time and mostly everybody. Just Shrugged it off it’s none of your business anyway. 

4. Sometimes you might prefer having fewer friends who could accept your bluntness than having many but backstab you. 

5. Most likely when friends trying to ask you some advice you would ask first “what do you want me to tell you, the truth? Or something that won’t upset you?”

Usually if your best friend love doing stupid things over and over again. 

6.You don’t like the sugarcoated version of anything. 
You are you, not Willy Wonka

7. People will always be hurt accidentally with your bluntness. 
 Anyway being blunt doesn’t mean you are cruel; some people just take it otherwise. 

8. If you are blunt you will surely figure out rightly that being honest and truthful are far different from being mean – definitely not the same things. 


However truth does hurt.

9. It will be hard to deal a rocky relationship with people without being annoyed with the way they understand you. 
 Most likely they cannot handle your personality as being blunt and straight forward.

10. Its inevitable, your bluntness makes you sarcastic to other people. 


11. When friends will introduce you to other people surely they’ve already tell in advance about you. 
Something like, sorry she’s a kind of bitch.

12. You’ve memorized the best apology for everyone who was offended with your comments. 
 Unless you never care not having friends.

13. Maybe you have been yelled many times before because not all the time truth sounds great to everybody. 

 You have to choose people and observe their personality as well, be careful with your words. You might wreck yourself in front of them. 

14. You’ve always labeled as a bitch or an asshole for telling your opinion honestly.
Something like, What is that? You look like a mashed potato when you’re trying to make a cute selfie of yourself. Back off!

Even I, was astounded when the well-known attractions in Maldives had popped up into my head. The truth is I was impressed and astonished beyond compare by the beauty and breath taking wonders found in that beautiful nation. Everybody is always up to planning holidays to give themselves a treat and a break from  hectic routines in this busier world. Well, knowing about the newest attractions in Maldives, it will be a big miss not to make it your number one destination for luxury Holidays.

The most expensive and most luxurious

Lots of travel magazines and websites have featured Maldives two indisputably most expensive and most luxurious resorts known as the Cheval Blanc Randheli and Velaa Private Islands. Not only that, but most resorts in Maldives also provide the lavish experiences to every visitor of the islands and something that you will love to try from time to time.

Have you ever tried dining underwater? The experience is surely epic!

Some restaurants in Maldives encourage their guests to pay more attention on surroundings than the decoration. One of the most visited restaurant in Maldives the Conrad Maldives Rangali Island Resort – offer a one of a kind 16 ft underwater restaurant. All you find is the acrylic ceiling encircled by sea creatures such as manta rays, turtles, reef fishes and even sharks. The restaurant offers a wide variety of international menus with $320 costs of booking per person. Really expensive but surely it’s worth the price!

Experience the luxurious Hotel 

You need a boat to reach the most luxurious hotel in the island known as the Palatial Private Residence. Every guest can enjoy their amazing facilities such as gym, private spa, terrace and rooftop sundecks, wine cellar with finest wine spirits and the sea garden. Apart from that, there are also frivolous entertainments to enjoy more like the waterslide, coral pool and their open-air bathroom.

Golf tee-off

Maldives is like a paradise with complete amenities and even golf tee-off. The 7.5 hectare golf course of Shangri-La Villingili Resort and Spa is one of the most visited places in Maldives with nine par-three and par-four holes. There are frolicsome extras too such as coconut palms, overwater villas and the radiance of Indian Ocean giving a novel tropical ambiance to the golf course.

Maldives has something new this winter

The newest attraction in Maldives known as the Amilla Fushi resort will be opening this winter and offers a 39ft up accommodation to all guest. They will be providing the most luxurious tree-house villas to give guests the new impression of this low-lying nation. In addition, there are also exceptional diving facilities and leisure to look forward into.

The Ocean Flower or the flower-shaped resort


Maldives has lots of attractions that can meet your preferences like no other. The Dutch Docklands flower-shaped resort which will be opened in 2016 and will give the most luxurious underwater accommodation to all guests. The property has 185 luxury villas where in, all rooms were constructed underwater. Incredible and so awesome to imagine -Maldives is indeed love!

Fashion is like the weather it never stays constant. From this week you have these loom bands and on the next a turban headbands with matching floral leggings, spaghetti straps and stilettos. Returning to retro elegance and glamour only means that designers have always something on their heads to polish styles that would flatter all women even more.

Defining retro it is actually the outfits during your great grandmother’s time, the time when televisions were still black and white and the time when Michael Jackson first danced the moon walk. Retro is actually an out-dated style and fashion which still have been considered these days. All credits to aspiring and astounding fashion aficionados who made the spirit of oldies come to life. Imagine yourself wearing those classics outfits way back 1980s and 1990s - most likely the time where Jollibee’s and McDonalds have not yet created – coming to nearby coffee shop and simply say “it’s mine fashion, the hell are you staring at?” Awkward but thanks to modern accents and inspirations retro fashion was upgraded and made cozy to match and go with the flow of the modern trends we have nowadays.

Retro fashion types: Which one you like the most?


Petticoat Function
Time cannot even fade this stunning retro party dress. The fine pleats that create an elegant wasp waist look and the crinoline-layered bottom half, yes its knee-length – will surely makes you feel more beautiful with it's designer’s twist.

High society retro attire
Here’s the classic but splendid – known as the car coat. Finely tailored and lightweight, this could become your great thigh-length style which makes you feel more comfortable once wore.



Retro Lush Life
Ever since this lavishly retro textured style never fails to express poise and grace of most leading ladies. It’s really a soft stretchy cotton that makes you feel amazingly comfortable not like those stiff and scratchy ones collection.

Accent on Elegance
Stick with contemporary outfits if you have some vintage or retro accessories stored in your pandora’s box. You can have skinny pants and a structured top then accent it with your blast-from-the-past jewelries and accessories collection like Bakelite-esque bangles, vintage watches, pearls and your cute turban headbands and scurf.

Retro Now and then
You can always outfit yourself as if you’ve just came out from a time machine. There’s great variety of retro styles that showcase a mush-up of new and old collections. Corsage blouses, stripes, floral hipsters pants, see-through, turtle neck and below the knee skirt.


Fashion is also an art and anybody can always express creativity on it. It's the same with retro fashion, from poodle skirts, big sunglasses, leather handbags, chiffon skirts, scarfs, bell-bottom jeans, skinny jeans and many more – the style and its own elegance will always live in time.

After long days of living busily and working hard the every job we have, when Sunday comes it’s usually our perfect time to rest, give thanks to God for all the blessings we received and maybe have a date. But have you ever tried sometimes that’s Sunday but “hey where’s everybody?” you have no one in the house to tag along with for relaxation and treats. You might end up losing your mood to wander around and making the best out of the day all alone – that’s mostly the case and then we say “ah okay forget about resting, have to spend time working rather”. There are people who cannot live a day without working or making themselves busy – it’s a human nature and those people imperatively need to exercise how to be happy alone sometime. They must do something for enjoyment and happiness so that they won’t be isolated from the fun of life.

“Sometimes life is like a bubble in the air, it flies yes, but it never stays up there, you will never realize it falls and by the time you try to make it fly higher and higher again it’s already gone.”

How will you able to find out if you can enjoy alone if you won’t give it a try? Besides there is no harm in trying and you can call it you’re one of a kind experience afterwards. Would like to share this experience I have last Sunday where I have learned so many things from wandering alone while trying to enjoy myself with things around. Being alone is not easy correct, but it doesn’t mean you are lonely – after all it all depends on the way you think and the way you see life. Just that, there are people who are highly workaholic and never mind how time flies. What I learned is that, I find my life so busier working hard and seems like I always slips in time and before I realize the value of every moment, things were gone already and I end up so empty. I’m used to it anyway but somehow and sometime it’s undeniable that my curiosity is making me sick wondering how it feels like to be with a group of people, with someone special maybe, with a family and with best friends and associates having food trips, visiting spas and salons or just casual chit chats on a coffee shop.

“Being too busy could blind you seeing what is really valuable and what is important in life, after all everything will be lost and will have no value at the end, what will be left from you is your memory to people – give them the best story to remember” 

Just bringing a picnic mat to a famous park in the city, buying my favorite chips, donuts, a thirst quencher favorite, book, music and wearing my shades looking up the sky – this is how I spent Sunday for almost three years. It’s really suffocating, though it feels cool and yes I can manage to enjoy myself. Then one day as I’m trying to pulled the gun that what am doing is right while observing my surroundings with people passing back and forth and asking myself, a thought popped out into my head which bombed me with my own foolishness- “you’ve trade your time with your work, and you thought you earn a lot to enjoy a lot, you definitely got it backward – you ended up weary and the things your body crave for are good sleep and proper resting, you’re not making any sense at all”. I was bombarded and by the time I was about to visit a certain café for coffee and pastry I dodder as if I’m going to collapse. I went back home and sleep, after I woke up – I realized that life’s enjoyment is not measured on your earnings, it’s about how you live your life accordingly.

"There is great value in spending your time with people who matter most, giving genuine love is much better than giving materials"

Give time to family and always reach out to friends and special people. Who knows one day they won’t be there anymore and you’re too late to do things which supposedly you’ve done before. Time waits no one but time doesn’t require anyone to race with the way it goes, it’s about enjoying every minute and making the best out of it to cherish for a lifetime.