Fashion is like the weather it never stays constant. From this week you have these loom bands and on the next a turban headbands with matching floral leggings, spaghetti straps and stilettos. Returning to retro elegance and glamour only means that designers have always something on their heads to polish styles that would flatter all women even more.

Defining retro it is actually the outfits during your great grandmother’s time, the time when televisions were still black and white and the time when Michael Jackson first danced the moon walk. Retro is actually an out-dated style and fashion which still have been considered these days. All credits to aspiring and astounding fashion aficionados who made the spirit of oldies come to life. Imagine yourself wearing those classics outfits way back 1980s and 1990s - most likely the time where Jollibee’s and McDonalds have not yet created – coming to nearby coffee shop and simply say “it’s mine fashion, the hell are you staring at?” Awkward but thanks to modern accents and inspirations retro fashion was upgraded and made cozy to match and go with the flow of the modern trends we have nowadays.

Retro fashion types: Which one you like the most?


Petticoat Function
Time cannot even fade this stunning retro party dress. The fine pleats that create an elegant wasp waist look and the crinoline-layered bottom half, yes its knee-length – will surely makes you feel more beautiful with it's designer’s twist.

High society retro attire
Here’s the classic but splendid – known as the car coat. Finely tailored and lightweight, this could become your great thigh-length style which makes you feel more comfortable once wore.



Retro Lush Life
Ever since this lavishly retro textured style never fails to express poise and grace of most leading ladies. It’s really a soft stretchy cotton that makes you feel amazingly comfortable not like those stiff and scratchy ones collection.

Accent on Elegance
Stick with contemporary outfits if you have some vintage or retro accessories stored in your pandora’s box. You can have skinny pants and a structured top then accent it with your blast-from-the-past jewelries and accessories collection like Bakelite-esque bangles, vintage watches, pearls and your cute turban headbands and scurf.

Retro Now and then
You can always outfit yourself as if you’ve just came out from a time machine. There’s great variety of retro styles that showcase a mush-up of new and old collections. Corsage blouses, stripes, floral hipsters pants, see-through, turtle neck and below the knee skirt.


Fashion is also an art and anybody can always express creativity on it. It's the same with retro fashion, from poodle skirts, big sunglasses, leather handbags, chiffon skirts, scarfs, bell-bottom jeans, skinny jeans and many more – the style and its own elegance will always live in time.

After long days of living busily and working hard the every job we have, when Sunday comes it’s usually our perfect time to rest, give thanks to God for all the blessings we received and maybe have a date. But have you ever tried sometimes that’s Sunday but “hey where’s everybody?” you have no one in the house to tag along with for relaxation and treats. You might end up losing your mood to wander around and making the best out of the day all alone – that’s mostly the case and then we say “ah okay forget about resting, have to spend time working rather”. There are people who cannot live a day without working or making themselves busy – it’s a human nature and those people imperatively need to exercise how to be happy alone sometime. They must do something for enjoyment and happiness so that they won’t be isolated from the fun of life.

“Sometimes life is like a bubble in the air, it flies yes, but it never stays up there, you will never realize it falls and by the time you try to make it fly higher and higher again it’s already gone.”

How will you able to find out if you can enjoy alone if you won’t give it a try? Besides there is no harm in trying and you can call it you’re one of a kind experience afterwards. Would like to share this experience I have last Sunday where I have learned so many things from wandering alone while trying to enjoy myself with things around. Being alone is not easy correct, but it doesn’t mean you are lonely – after all it all depends on the way you think and the way you see life. Just that, there are people who are highly workaholic and never mind how time flies. What I learned is that, I find my life so busier working hard and seems like I always slips in time and before I realize the value of every moment, things were gone already and I end up so empty. I’m used to it anyway but somehow and sometime it’s undeniable that my curiosity is making me sick wondering how it feels like to be with a group of people, with someone special maybe, with a family and with best friends and associates having food trips, visiting spas and salons or just casual chit chats on a coffee shop.

“Being too busy could blind you seeing what is really valuable and what is important in life, after all everything will be lost and will have no value at the end, what will be left from you is your memory to people – give them the best story to remember” 

Just bringing a picnic mat to a famous park in the city, buying my favorite chips, donuts, a thirst quencher favorite, book, music and wearing my shades looking up the sky – this is how I spent Sunday for almost three years. It’s really suffocating, though it feels cool and yes I can manage to enjoy myself. Then one day as I’m trying to pulled the gun that what am doing is right while observing my surroundings with people passing back and forth and asking myself, a thought popped out into my head which bombed me with my own foolishness- “you’ve trade your time with your work, and you thought you earn a lot to enjoy a lot, you definitely got it backward – you ended up weary and the things your body crave for are good sleep and proper resting, you’re not making any sense at all”. I was bombarded and by the time I was about to visit a certain café for coffee and pastry I dodder as if I’m going to collapse. I went back home and sleep, after I woke up – I realized that life’s enjoyment is not measured on your earnings, it’s about how you live your life accordingly.

"There is great value in spending your time with people who matter most, giving genuine love is much better than giving materials"

Give time to family and always reach out to friends and special people. Who knows one day they won’t be there anymore and you’re too late to do things which supposedly you’ve done before. Time waits no one but time doesn’t require anyone to race with the way it goes, it’s about enjoying every minute and making the best out of it to cherish for a lifetime.

To women having a date is something that would stir them up and excite their sense to what will happen on that certain moment. What you must know this time are the food guys order and the meanings behind it. Surprising isn’t it?

When he orders steak 
It will be extra special first date you enjoy when he orders steak for you both of you. This type of a man is a kind of adventurous one and his trying to impress you.

How about when he chooses a four course meal? 
The man might have the horrible first impression.

The cravings of soup
Well maybe you are dating a 65-year old at least.

The hard to pronounce menu 
The man is trying to impress you either observing first how to pronounce it correctly beforehand to wow you up without you knowing he’s a douche-bag.

BBQ ribs the specialty of the house 
There is no doubt you’re dating a man who doesn’t care. He wont mind eating the food using his hands, bath his fingers and face with the sauce and looking at your eyes seriously without blinking while he does it. Be careful he might be the alpha or worst crazy either that would be creepy.
Chicken Nuggets 
He’s the type of man that you want to kick to outer space.

Dishes with garlic or onions 
He had figured out already before you thought of it that at the end of the night there will be no kissing to happen and what’s worst? He can guess that you hate him.

Lobster
This bit disgusting because surely this man is hoping for you to divide the bill and pay a fair-share. He’s into “Are you sure? You don’t have to but if you insist then yes sure we can”. He’s the man who loves cheap and casual date.

Choosing burger instead 
You’ve dated and average Joe and an ordinary man eating ordinary food. Basically wear tattered jeans or his favorite t-shirt and listening to radio in his car. This man is just “whatever” and knows nothing but shrugging a lot when you tend to ask him some questions.

Buffet is practical 
Dating such guy might be challenging and if you dare marrying such type expect to live an extreme couponer kind of life. Well then goodluck!

Nachos on the go 
This dude is most likely high right now and really chill. He thinks everything is damn funny and for a moment seriousness is lame.

Pizza 
He’s probably a nacho type guy who wants you to look like a fool and take him seriously.

Ice-cream 
Im sorry but I guess you’re dating an unsupervised 12 year old kid

Salad 
You might be dating a guy who speaks things like “Hello? Im so health-conscious and what I eat matters”. It’s actually his finest way to elaborate his tirade over meat and chicken and insist great triumphs of healthy eating and yes veggies.


Now if you are excited for your first date always put these things on your mind. You cannot lose grip of yourself and know better what type of man you’re dating, a pizza guy or a lobster guy? Either one of them, if I were you I’d better spend my time sleeping.

When it comes to favorite food everybody always have words to say. From appetizer, entree, side dish, main dish up to desserts every one of us has their own choices of what's the best, palatable, delicious and one of a kind dish. The delish taste of your favorite food that gives your taste bud the first impressions like no other most likely you cannot even help yourself from craving.

True, that everyone have in common when it comes to favorite food.  A day a go todaysfeeds had conducted a brief interview from 100 college students in place regarding their favorite food and we have summarized and listed their answers.

Pizza



From the total number of students we've interviewed, 90% preferred pizza as their most favorite food in all seasons. The thick or thin creamy and buttery crust topped with filled with different toppings like bell peppers, white onions, bacon, ham, beef, mushrooms and olives and with palatable melted mozzarella cheese - surely sinfully madness.  It's not wonder that this food was listed number one among all favorite foods people may have. The taste explains it!

Steak



From baby back ribs, beef tenderloin steak glazed with special sauce up to fish steaks cooked in medium rare - the taste can surely delight your taste buds savagely. Students have answered steaks as their favorite food with excitement and with WOW expression on their faces. Steak is one thing they all have in common. Even todaysfeeds stuffs voted the same favorite food - awkward, because they're actually craving to eat later one serve after the mission.

Pasta



The Italian cuisine recipes can surely make you love pasta dishes second to none. Pasta made it to the list, giving different exquisite pasta dishes inspired by different cuisine round the globe. Pasta trend like tuna pasta with special bechamel sauce, fettuccine and many more are currently the common dish served on fine dining and famous restaurants. Reason is simply - people never get tired of it and this will always be their most favorite food through out life.

Pastries


With the innovations to thousands of recipes, pastry shops were build from places to places to introduce newest and tastiest pastries made from special ingredients. Based from the survey conducted pastries were regarded as the favorite snack food or perfect food for coffee.

What todaysfeeds team found out from the survey was actually a list of hundred different foods given by these students. We categorized it all and made a general list of their favorite food. We realized that food is like numbers - it has no end and has no limit. We appreciate how everyone participated and as the world has lots latest things nowadays - the choice of favorite food seems to go on trends.

Do you remember the time when you were in the midst of injustice? Typically what you do is react furiously and thinking of revenge. Injustice is such a painful thing which we find hard to ignore and just do nothing with it. Only few can do that and most of us ended up in doing things against people who had given us depressions and sorrows. But have we ever realized what the consolations we gain after this? The price of our vengeance is nothing but bitterness from which we find it hard to let go and had let our lives driven by the bad influenced of it.

I have been to a situation wherein I was betrayed by the closest person in my life and the pain I felt is just unbearable. I have been to a situation wherein everybody talks behind my back and mock me with bad stories which are not even true, and I have been to a situation wherein I was deceived by my own brothers and father. These things were considered as injustice and yes I do react furiously during those times.Then I came to contemplate about what I had done and good to realized that I just make them more complicated and the burdens became bigger. Then I asked myself - did I make any difference or did I settle the things? I had responded them with rude and offensive words as anger had ruled over me and I freak out. Obviously I let myself be the victim of anger. Acting paranoid and dealing with issues had made me crazy and yet at the end of day I was still the loser.


I nod in silence and feel so shame because I depended everything based on my own understanding and knowledge. I took control of those things which I should have not. I was convicted with the bad words that came out my mouth and to people who heard it, it’s unforgivable. Perhaps, I am like the bad seeds and I need to be trashed out the field. So narrow-minded that I'd let the voices of the world affect me badly and it had me turning round in the realm of cruelty and bitterness.

I am writing this experiences I have went through not to convince everybody but to share something we failed to realize most of the time. Sometimes there are things we thought worth the vengeance and that we felt like we're oppressed one. Taking those things violently and trying to implant on our brain that we have the right to punish people for what they had done towards us. But no, we dont have any rule to play to weigh out the situation and making it fair between both sides.

Injustice is such a nice occurrence that can come to us and be tested. Its not about your emotions and your heart been hurt here but this is all about how strong your faith is. The best thing to do about it is never to depend on our own selves or to control everything with our bare hands. What really matters is how much do we care choosing not to sin in the middle of  situation were we are tempted to embrace the most sinful part.This might be a complex idea but for me its pretty simple. We are very complaisance of all we knew and we forgot the one who is more powerful than all of us and all the things in the universe.

We thought we are wiser and smarter than anybody else and we always wanted to get even during injustice moments. Never to let yourself be drawn by your anger because it would lead you to hatred, instead let good heart and good soul dwell inside you and surrender everything to the one who created you. Never to doubt Him and trust in him with all you are and He will guarantee you peace after the war.


If that certain thing hasn't come into my life, maybe I was still chained in a life where anger and vengeance have no limits and control. This is all about trusting the Lord who made this world, who created the air, the sun, the moon and the stars and who gave you life.  When you are in the midst of injustice, submit everything under his name with humbleness and love from our deep within. As long as you have the mind to think or to contemplate things before reacting, pray and always call His name for rescue and He won’t fail you.

No matter how many times we had been given injustice, be still and let the Lord handles it for you for He can do better and great more than you can imagine.

As a writer, I have lots of opinions and wide imaginations with all the things in this universe. But  there is one thing I have no idea about and that is - LOVE. I am a hopeless romantic waiting for a prince to pass by then kiss me on my lips and easily wakes me up from my long slumber - But I'm no sleeping beauty. I thought it only need fast heart beats and a strong commotion of nerves inside the body then alas! its love. The more I understand reality, the more I realized that I don't know anything about love.

I was preoccupied with my imaginative thoughts and still living my life in a dream. The first time  I fell in-love, I thought it was true love. My story starts from having my world getting smaller and smaller and I can see only two of us existing where colorful butterflies flying around making fairy tale comes to life. I have myself a slave of my own infatuation and I end up acting so immature quite few years. I dont want to speak out black and white opinions here, I just realized how childish I am during those times and want to share the learning I had from those experiences. Honestly, the so-called relationship lasted only for two months. But the ironic part is that, I had moved on totally after two years because I let my fancy emotions conquered my entire brain. The ironic part is that, you will realize how stupid you are after you have moved on completely. Though, not so epic but yes I have learned a lot - love is not availed so fast and on every time you just want it, it comes so slow and would take a lot of patience sometime.


Love is all about how you treat someone, care for someone and never do things that would hurt him or her. Love is kind and understanding, love is not selfish and expects nothing in return. But when my ex boyfriend failed to satisfies the kind of  love story I always dreamed, I told him he lacks effort and I never give him another chance, though he had asked for it. We broke up and after a month, we tried to settle the broken pieces but we ended up insulting each other. It became difficult for me to forget him because he was my first love and I ended up clinging with the short memories I had with him. I always tell friends that I cannot love someone else like the way I loved him - that usually the lines of teenagers after their first break up. When someone is at this stage, surely you handle things with exaggeration  - so emotional, sensitive and most probably lacks of experiences to be matured when ti comes to dealing with emotions . What you feel will affect your mindset, thus sometimes when someone is depress he or she feels like hopeless and want to end up things. Good thing, I have experienced such, that only proves I'm human and I am following the normal stage of life.

The second boyfriend was a scammer from a different country. We havent meet yet but I cried infront of my computer because our relationship was over and he was gone without even saying goodbye. That kind of love story we had is merely virtual powered by technologies and a sort of odd mutual feelings coming from milestone. I thought I was out of my imagination but when this man came into my life, I was even more inclined to my dreams,where in I'd wished not to wake up anymore. But the thought came one silent night - how can a person love another person without even seeing her or him personally? I want to believe that love is possible even in that way and that love has no measures and bases -- but I failed. Honestly, I fell in love with him with the idea I knew about love and yes I wished  him to come back but he didn't.



Time passed in haste and I learned  the lesson. Sometimes you can be consumed with your admiration. You think of it over and over and you assumed it is something. Once you have let a single thought conquered your head it would give you a thousand thoughts to contemplate in a certain period of time unless you decide not to think of it anymore. If you have found things so ideal in your part  you might fall into it and wish everything will come into reality. however there is no such thing like magic and most likely your emotions will only deceive you.

It was me again, living life alone and no spice at all. One summer I went home and meet a vacationist in town. I am not attracted but I  like his brain, though I haven't touch, smell nor see it. He has high IQ and even beat me up in playing my favorite card games.Aside from that, he got nice hair and he's a kind of gentleman. I thought he was the one because as time spent with him along with the groups, I realized he is cool and funny. But the person ask me one thing I cannot give. He is asking me too much just to prove to him my love.I was upset and would rather lose him than giving something I valued the most. People who ask evidence of love are no good. Love has no evidence, it is felt. love asks nothing but always wanted to be expressed. Im so thankful I was out from such situation, I was able to found out that some people are not worth loving.

With all the experiences I have, seems like it had me opinionated. Maybe not my luck today and who knows tomorrow that could be it. What I learned is, love comes to those who wait. I cannot imagine the world without this thing and I do believe that regardless of the advent of technologies, there are still noble things that would make us appreciate life simply.